Aquarius in Love: Traits, Expectations & FearsIf you want to win the heart of your Aquarius crush, read our top tips below. Ruled by Uranus, the planet of originality, rebellion and liberation, the Aquarius man is rarely conventional. Your Aquarius crush will find this a very attractive quality and will be dying to learn more about your unique interests and talents. Because the Aquarius man values his freedom and independence so highly, he needs to know that his partner is the same. If you are needy, clingy or make him the centre of your universe, this will feel like a ball and chain to him.
Also if an Aquarius man really likes you he will hide it. He is always friendly so you will find he will be distant to you. He might stutter or go red and be nervous. Smile at him. Big smiles but just get on with your life.
It takes great courage for them to ask you out because they are Shy and misunderstood not at all but they think so! Also they might do this moody thing where they decide you are too good for them and are downright nasty. Don,t get angry just say very calmly "do not talk to me like that" and wait. He Will apologize, then talk to them in a soft way, with plenty of flicking eye contact and starring at fingers.
Sounds all complex but they are perverse, yet sexy and very loyal in a loyal. Good luck xxx. Click here to add your own comments. Join in and write your own page! It's easy to do. Simply click here to return to Aquarius man. Find out what astrology has to say about your unique partner and relationship beyond just sun signs.
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What are your sun and moon signs by the way? Interesting comment about them needing lots of compliments. I'm curious why you say that.
He's bolted. And I have this feeling he'll be coming back. I think he got scared. Thank you, you've helped me understand. Complicated-help by: Anonymous I have been getting mixed signals too. Like I thought he liked me, but he seems to be more stressed.
I don't even know what to do anymore. How can I talk to him? I want him to make a move on me. Because we're MEN, Silly! All MEN need and want to know that we're cool in your eyes, even when we pretend to be indifferent. But make sure it isn't one sided, girlfriend I make damn sure to let a woman in my life know she's my Queen. You have validated so much for me.
I was deeply attracted this male Aquarius. Everything that you mentioned was exactly the way things went. I did not date nor did I have sex with him but he was sending all of the mixed signals that you described. First, he is asking me perverted questions, then he plays the Mr. Flirting game, and right before I moved, he was introducing me to his friends mostly guy friends, I felt like I was on display.
If I had been single, all of this would have intrigued me but I was married and my husband means the world to me. I was simply trying be a good friend. I wasn't looking to have an affair at the time but somehow I felt as though he was looking to mess up my marriage. I made my husband move to get away from all of that. Oddly enough I miss those things about him but it was interesting to know that my speculation was on the money.
That was very informative, I just met an aquarius man online 2 wks ago we have been talking non stop literally, even while he is at work, very suave and everything that was mentioned was hit right on the head.
He is 25 I am 29 a Gemini. I was devastated, i just could not believe how something we both felt so strongly, could be dropped in such a manner. Don't "never explain yourself," as honestly that will just piss us off and make us not trust you as much as you'd like. It may be intriguing at first, but gets old quick. Never try and get your own way all the time. We will get callous and mean very fast, and once we dig in our heels it's a battle you'll never win. Unpredictability is intriguing, but it can and often does follow the same line as never explaining anything.
We tend to read between the lines and guess things correctly, but if we don't concretely know our minds go along eighty million different lines and it's very frustrating. If we've slept with you and seem distant, than all it was was sex. We're fine with being friends, just don't be awkward.
We won't hide that we like you, we just wait for you to come to us. That's how we decide right off the bat if you're a possibility, that you had the kahones to ignore our distance and talk to us. Usually we are shy when we first meet you, and it seems as though we're weird and extremely eccentric, although once you get to know us you wonder how you didn't understand us before. We do get moody and think you are too good for us, and that's usually if we think you are someone you're not.
We tend to notice perfection and get angry at ourselves when we don't match what we think we should do or say. We are simple in action, but complex in thought. Once you know each of our personalities and combine it with the astrological concepts, we're very easy to understand on a general basis, but our intellectual side can often mess with relationships as we always lust for more in that department.
Accurate enough I'm curious about the sign of the author Aquarius Woman dating Aquarius Man by: Anonymous I am an aquarius woman and I met an aquarius man in June and we started talking and talking and a few weeks later we were dating. We have continued to communicate in a way that I have never communicated before.
I have dated other aquarius men who were distant and aloof, and too be honest more than eccentric, but this man is funny, intriging, adventurous, compassionate, unpredictable in a good way and like myself a parent and from what I can see a very good parent.
He has passion and ethics and only wants to do what's right. I don't think I have ever been is such a good relationship - he is definitately someone that I could be with for a long time. FYI - for 15 years I was with a Virgo - two signs that should never be together.
Im more than happy to give him space, i like my own space too - but does the aloofness improve with time in a relationship - or am i going to go through periods constantly of his being extremely distance and at times non existant lol Appreciate your experienced advice on this one. Im confused. To the virgo 16 year old in trouble by: f Hey Girl chill out You have gotten caught in the Aquarius wheel of torture.
I care but I can also turn it off if they are pissing me off. Don't let him fuck you over, he thinks your hot but it trying to burst your ego, or come across cool. He is friendly to everyone accept when in a bad mood so if he is shitty to you its because he likes you.
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And you also broke the cardinal rule of going to the family Listen, it doens't matter what you look like to an aquarian man as long as you are cool and sexy. You have to know it yet be demure, can you do that? Look I know we are hard work, believe me I know that. Thats why I always think its best if we have older lovers, they don't take our Ice queen crap seriously.
On younger men it has them hooked So he's dated loads of girls, so what? He hasn't taken any of them seriously. I have dated loads of guys but I didn't care about them I was bored- don't judge me what am I supposed to do stay at home all day reading Proust?
Get some distance, if he likes you he will be back after he has sorted his head out and admitted he actually does like you in a deep way. Wow, this is great!
Both of us are in a committed relationship with our own problems. We have became friends and I understand him to the point of feeling like I am talking to my soul mate sometimes.
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There is both an intellectual and physical attraction between the two of us and if we were at a different place in both of our lives or had we met sooner, I think the chemistry would be unreal. My virgo atleast understands my independence and need for freedom which is why we have lasted 15 years I suppose. Oh, but those aquarian men always catch my eye! So I dated an Aquarian for a few years. Here's my experience with him as an Aquarian. They are prideful and have a self-esteem problem this one at least.
They are in constant need to be put first, and as a Virgo, I am also like this. So with the first sign of hurt, they retrieve back and if you continued, they fall out of love and leaves you wonder why. Even if you say the slightest mean thing and even if you told them didn't mean it, they'd take it as if you've killed their family sorry, a little bit exaggerated. So be mindful of their sensitivity when you get into an argument. I feel that what they find most attractive about a woman is showing that she really cares, but do it moderately.
I agree that they are witty and loves a woman who is on their level, but if you show a slightest sign of distance and uninterest, they'd get turn off quickly. They tend to fall in and out of love very quickly. Yes, they are manipulative and stubborn.
Even if they are wrong, they will make it sound like they are right because they are so clever and wittyand once you get them in the argumental mode, don't expect to get your way. There are also good qualities about them though. I liked him because he was intelligent. His comments were always witty. He pampered me so much that it spoiled me, and he never expected anything in return. When they love, they love you with all their hearts as long as you show that you love them too.
This guy was extremely loyal when we were "in love", whatever that meant. Anyways, this is my experience with an Aquarian guy. Some of the stuff may not apply to other Aquarians. Very helpful by: Kinky Cap Wow. I guess being an Aquarius helps matters. Takes a nutter to know a nutter, what? Thanks for sharing your insight and tips. Happy Birthday Aquarius peeps. Aquarius men are to hard to figure out by: Kim I met my Aquarius about a year ago. He always committed on how beautiful I was and how much he wants me.
We finally hooked up and all that sweetness faded away. He likes to drink and that seem to be the only time the charm is present. I think he loves me, but I really can't tell because it seems as if he treats every woman in his life the same way, well he does seem to be a little meaner to me at times.
Sex was always just ok but I have tried to bring new ideas to the bedroom but he just wants to do it one way. It's hard because it was not like that in the beginning. He tells me he loves me from time to time but is it really true.
I have to wonder. It seemed like it was made in heaven. Then my life got complicated and I needed more love than he was willing to give. He just stopped talking to me so I had to let him go. This is the most painful breakup of my life. I had no idea his love for me was so small. It was a complete shock. My birthday is the 9th and his is the 10th.
He said he lost track of our birthdays. Hang on for a bumpy ride! I recently dated an aquarian man for 6 months. The beginning was very stimualating. We had known each other for a while prior to dating and he pursued me hot and heavy. When I finally gave in and decided to date him, a few months were absolutely dreamy and I truly thought he was the one I had been looking for, I fell hard.
Then like a light switch, he turned it all off. He was cold, rarely called unless he wanted a booty call, etc. His issues were he had became very jealous of how many guy friends I had and how close we all were. Me being outgoing and having a large network of friends was something he knew prior to getting involved and I was not going to change that so I let him and his jealous and stubborn ass hit the road. This one doesn't have the jealous streak but all the other qualities I adore in aquarius I have always been attracted to this sign but the ones with a jealous streak are terrible to deal with.
If I wasn't an aquarian myself and understand them so well, I would never date one of these guys honestly. They can be hard to communicate with and rarely open up and get attached.
But its the way they can turn their emotions off and on that is irritating. But I am the same way so I can't complain much.
I just know better to fall for one of these guys again. If you are looking for a good time, they are the key. If you are looking for a commitment, proceed carefully. If they are friendly and turn on all The charm they want to know you- I do the same its this intense curiosity I have.
My sis says its mixed signals- can't help it I'm buillt that way. But if they love you they will drive you nuts. They will stalk you without letting you know they even care. They will be They will be Rough and sound angry at you- they can't deal with their emotions. They wil yearn for you, they might even chat to girls infront of you to get a reaction.
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They will do stupid things to get your attention. They will try to mimic behaviour you do to seem cool, or intice you. Because they feel so uncool around you. Finally you will know if they like you if you ask for help. A always help a damsal in distress, I am not asking for a leo like help me seduce me here; very wrong.
No more like a little bit upset and confused'Having a bad day'and see what they do. They are lovely, but if they like you they will pull them selves together to say the right thing ang give confort. Tell you it will be oik; its the insecurity- Aq are insecure in love. It makes us dizzy.
But they like most people- it love thjat difficult for them. Once you get into that soft place and they tell you they love you- they usually won't lie unless you are needy and they wish to escape, He will tell you.
I know he means it because - Well because his fae changes when he sees me unexpectedly and he can't put the affable mask on- he shakes, his voice trembles. Catch them unexpectedly to know how he feels. I know it was a huge slut move on my part but I don't care it was just sex!
Anyway, after we slept together it wasn't the same between us anymore. He has a hard time speaking to me and he even has a hard time looking me in the eye. I don't know what the hell his problem is. I wanted to continue having sex with him but I don't know how to tell him.
I don't know if I should be blunt with him and ask him what his problem is or should I just play his little immature game and become disstant?
Please Help! He got what he wanted from you and now you are used garbage. Why is that so hard to figure out? This is my second real relationship with another aquarian and he is so different in so many ways than the first. This man is as loyal, fun loving, even tempered as any person I have ever met and he adores me.
Tips. Aquarian men are perceptive and logical. They're rarely with a communicative Gemini, extroverted Libra, or another Aquarius. If you just met a guy born between 20th January and 18th February, and you are unsure whether he is the one, here are some useful tips to. I'm an Aquarius woman who has dated many Aquarius men. OK ladies don't despair! Yes they have mixed signals but that is because they usually don't know.
He was born on the 18th so I wonder if he has some Pisces traits though? Sometimes he does things, like being very open about his feelings and intentions in this relationsip, that are outside the Aquarian comfort zone.
Aquarius man by: Anonymous I have been chatting on line to aquarius man he does not say much i am a virgo a few lines in e mail thats all i get. Dont know how to get him to open up more or just give up help. My Aquarius by: leo in love I don't normally do things like this but I need help. I am a Leo woman and right now I'm going through a break up with my Aquarius man.
He decided to end it because he feels that in order for him to be in a relationship he needs to find himself. He believes that in order to be happy in a relationship he needs to be happy with himself. I understand being lost and confused in your life because I'm at that point in my life as well, where im just not satisfied with how things are going and im confused about what to do. But I guess I thought that being with him we could help each other out. Especially because we get along really well and can relate to each other and many ways.
He makes me really happy and though he doesn't show it much I know I make him just as happy. We would fight sometimes but we got through it and our fights wouldn't be terrible. There were maybe one or 2 big fights but we were able to compromise. I did feel that he would be distant with me emotionally sometimes but I tried really hard to not let it bother me. But I guess it just really got to me. I know its hard to say whether he'll come back to me when he's figured his life out but is there a way that I can get him to stay?
Or is it best to just let him go. I mean I know I'm not in love with him, but I definitely felt something, I felt like I was starting to fall but then this happened. I just need an outside opinion from someone. Me again Sorry it's been awhile : to the Leo sag and Virgo Hope your Aqu man isn't driving you crazy.
Dear online Virgo girl- an Aq man is very hard to get to online, they used the technology because we love that stuff but he is also hiding behind it. Sag girl Dump tis up, I know it's hard to for Sag to admit defeat but ask yourself, are you in it for him or because you like challenges and want to win? We Aq loves competition secretly and when pushed will do whatever it takes to win so unfriend him on fb.
Leo in love He has a if secret he doesn't want to tell you about because he is ashamed. You are describing typical behaviour for that. Leo and Aq are symmetrically Opp. So eventually ou meet in the middle but you do thing so differently. My sis is Leo and is took along time for us to get on, but being friends is SO much easier that lovers for Aq.
It's about trust Can you get him to trust you; really trust you knowlping that he probably doesn't trust himself? Also, there is very little reward in this sometimes because usually an Aq man can't give the Leo woman what she really needs, but at the same time it so exciting and sexy and He seems to really listen to you and give supportive advice OK so there are two ways this could go 1. Walk away let him be, he may come back but in his time not yours so by the time that happens you will probably be seing someone else.
Persistence- which know you Leo's are good at. Get through to him, find out what's what but mind you have the right reaction when you find out. DON'T do the Leo thing and blow up or loose your temper or get more emotional than he can handle. Listen, think, react. Be wise, supportive ask insightful questions, help him figure things out for himself.
You may still break up or this may bring you closer together. Either way at least you get closure. Forogot to say by: f Aq turn their emotions off when it's too messy and they can't handle it.
It's disassociation If they had been to counselling they would say " I'm not sure how to respond or I don't like what is happening, I need a few mins of calm time to figure it out, please don't push me to respnd right now" t most of them can't do that!
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I have no clue We went to the same highschool, graduated the same year One decade later, we "bumped into each other" on a sex site Like most of you, it went as WOW! He was a chatter box, we discussed a lot of stuff, sex especially To me, he is too good for me, but I can't let go We chatted and has gone on cam for a bit before we hooked up.
At the beginning, we did discuss about what we are looking for We never kissed, as much as I know where he hangs out etc I am a pretty rational person, as much as I'm a pisces I'd think, I need to give him space, and so if he's not interested, at least tell me He sounds too suspicious, but my gut tells me that he likes me but I don't trust my own gut feeling anymore He is a guy I look up to, because he is focused, and he became my role model.
There were times when I would ask him questions, because I was really stuck in my career, his words made sense and I was able to overcome challenges. I love his bluntness and so if he tells me that he only take me as a friend, I know that I'll be ok with it I just want him to be happy. I like him as a friend, even things don't work out romatically, I still want to be his buddy. Please help! You won't like this He won't tell you what you want to your face because of three reasons; it's nice to have admirers and friends, he doesn't want to be the arsehole, he gets to have sex on tap Sorry honey x.
Sag woman with Aqua man!!! It's seems when things are going well and getting serious We've been dating for 19 months. I respect his request and give it to him. Please give me some insight Why he is hot and cold by: f Have you ever heard that Aqu are perverse?
Well striding around being honest, trying to right wrongs and see things differently in the world gets a little boring sometimes so we go and do something strange and perverse. I remember my bf wanted me to go to a party with her and I didn't; I told her I was in a strange mood and I just wanted to be on my own for awhile. She came and picked me up any way and Long story short I ended up tying a naked guy to his bed and leaving him there to fend for himself because he annoyed me. I was, if anything, more annoyed at myself for giving in to my perverse feelings and loosing self control than him.
You see? She should have left me at home to quietly work it out by myself. Do you understand? Sag woman with Aqua man by: Sag Girl Thanks for responding! I kinda sort of understand I say that because there's nothing wrong with our relationship and I've done nothing wrong. He said that himself. However I do understand the need for "me time". I like space myself. But when we are close and everything is great I also noticed recently he's a lil insecure too.
Ive never given him a reason not to be.
I reassured him "he's the only man I want to be with". Thank you, f : by: Anonymous I thought the same way. So instead of dreading and waiting, or crying my eyes out I wrote him a long long e-mail, and then told him that I'm going to "vanish" before he does I mean, I have to say I've dated other guys before I did cry my eyes out and it's going to take time His lost of words is just priceless I just don't get it, I've told him off quite a few times, and he still came back for more I don't know, I might be imagining things tho, lol I've done what I thought is needed and I've put my foot down for the sake of my own sanity I always belive that, if things are meant to be.
I just want to give up. We both go to the same university and we hit it off, even though I went to the party sober and he was a little intoxicated. He didn't let me go, we hung out the whole night and he followed me to my car and I was taking care of a drunk friend that night so I basically ignored him and he insisted that I answer his text.
Sure enough I get home and get my friend taken care of he text me, I am not one to be rude even to strangers so I text him, well we ended up texting quite a bit and a started to hang out every now and then, and we ended up being hook up buddies basically.
I always had this strange feeling for him like I never had with anyone else. Then all of sudden like most aquarius men do he randomly stopped talking to me one week in February. So I was wondering what the heck was going on so I text him and basically got the whole I think you like me more than I like you, I can't go down this road right now and so on. It took him a day to answer me so all I sent back to that was alright. About a week longer I couldn't stand it and messaged him via facebook and we just started talking again like nothing had happend.
I have to admit it is a little frustrating but I liked him so much I was willing to deal with this odd behavior. Well all of this continued then summer came and we both went home, talking every now and then nothing too serious.
We got back to school and I saw him for the first time this semester at a bar with his roommate his girlfriend and what I thought was his girlfriend, my heart stopped and I just wanted to claw her eyes out. She ended up just being his roommates girlfriends roommate.
We ended up texting later that night and hanging out just cuddling and kissing and I was so happy to be in his arms again. And we continued to talk and then a few days ago I left town for cross country and he went home to.
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Well he text me and asked me what I was doing I told him I was at a cross country meet and he said are you sure you're not going to see your boyfriend? So I was just in shock after 8 months of games and tortue and he finally says he likes me. I was happy but also confused as to why it took so long. I got back from cross country and my friend and I went out. He still wasn't back from going home, anyway long story short I kissed someone when I was drunk and gave him a hickey.
Well this didn't set to well with him when he found out and now he won't talk to me : the last message I got was nice hicky you gave nate. My heart is broken. I'm a gemini woman btw. OK you say you like me, you came over to talk to me, you are jealous because all your mates are chatting me up, but I didn't take them up on it did I? So what if I sent my mate over with your drink, seems as though you were into her, and she is enamoured with you, so what do you want from me?
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A date I now have to keep secret from my friend? Because underneath I know you, so sweet, so sexy, so fun We could talk for hours, but who, I ask, is the one playing games Me, you, both of us, do you know the rules, are we playing chess when I thought we were playing poker? One of you has to stop playing games and get to the point or you are going to hurt each other more than you can imagine.
Pisces girl, he did like you, he's probably put you in the category of too good for him. I miss talking with him Should I talk to him again? Or like you tell me, to drop it?! I think he is too good for me too. Insight from aquarius man please!!! Five years ago he thought I cheated wrongly he turned cold and so did I but we carried on. Then four months ago he tells me he has met another woman for love and affection as he didnt get any from me.
I was devastated and cried for a month solid. He was shocked when I told him I loved him and said "you hid it very well". I felt terrible and apologised explained my feelings he said he was sorry and didnt think I cared and that he would never have got involved with someone else had he known it would hurt me.
Since then we have seen more of each other and got on great. Lots of sex and love and affection on both sides. The other woman however is still in the picture I have not put pressure on him as I know him well enough to know that will not work. He said last week "dont worry about it I cant see her being around for long! I know he prefers sex with me as he told me that straight out and he isnt a liar. I didnt realise how much he needed that affection until recently after ten years.
I dont fall in love easily so I wont give him up without fighting for him!! Any comments from an aquarius man would help. Thank you. When an Aqu by: f When an Aqu man wants out he wants out Whatever he says to you, he just doesn't want want a scene.
Pisces girl, let him go he's made his mind up. Aries girl- he probably wants you over this other woman, but it's a bit of a test too- how much do you want him. Have some self respect and call it. Make him choose, he might drift off for awhile but he will come back.
Make him drop that other woman or else. You made me feel better by telling me that at home point, he did like me. As a pisces, gotta have my pisces moment to enjoy my little romance, but I know, in reality I will let him go, I know that I've tried and all. Like I said before, it will take time to move on, but I know that I can do it! You rock! Pisces girl. Thanks f by: GeminiGirl: Well I finally got him to text me.
I think he is still hurt but coming around. I now believe that he truly does like me. I am tired of the games and really do want to be with him but he is being so stubborn!!! He just fires me up. He is the only one who truly gets to me I can't take this one text a day business I miss him.
I have just spent the last few months rebuilding our relationship. This is how I want him to remember us to make sure I stand the best chance of him returning. I want him to see me at my best so he knows what he will be missing. Sharing him has been torture but I now feel stronger and ready to take the risk.
I wanted him to come to the decision himself and it be his choice to leave her but that may not happen.
Aqu girl with Aqu man by: f Hi, Sounds like he is putting you through some nasty stuff. STOP him from putting you through this Write him a clear and concise letter as to why you don't want to see him anymore. List items such as:- I am not a liar, I have never lied, the only person who has lied in the relationship is you. I don't like you seeing someone else besides me, either I am right for you or I am it.
Instead on waiting for you to sort your head and decide what you want I have decided what I want. I want to be treated like the warm, sexual, complex and interesting girl I am. This guy is using the anti biotics as an excuse to express his anxiety The letter above should get him storming back to express his side of things, if he does makes sure he drops the other girl, or YOU start seeing someone else, don't give this as an ultimatum, just say if you are seeing other people are you ok with me doing the same?
However, know that his anger at finding your anti biotics are reflective of himself What has he been doing that makes him leap to these conclusions immediately? Do you really want him back at all?
He sounds like a mightily twisted Aqu man, and Aqu men are complicated already. Listen if you want him back be cool, calm and collected. Also be sweet and soft in your approach to him, for example:- hey, you don't have to explain yourself to me, it's ok. If you are ready, you aren't ready. I have to go kiss on the cheek and leave. You see Aqu are all about being diff and breaking the moul.
The sign is a person, usually a man pouring water, or a winged angel. Do you know what special about angels in this scenario? They are both genders. This means that Aqu men can be quite effeminate; this makes them paranoid and with an inner desire to prove their manhood, especially the younger ones.
I'm working on the premise that he is quite young. So to be manly, you have to be very female but not the kind of female he will resent. Can you do this? It will get him back if you change the rules like this. I suggest wearing something casual and female, a dress, with a full skirt, something that works your figure but not slutty. Wear white if it suits your skin tone.
Look natural but sexy in make up and hair; Aqu men love long dishevelled hair, pin up loosely with tendrils. OK, a warning, you might get him back but he might crush you to get him back you know? Know two things: you can't make men fall in love with you. You can't make men who love you treat you well, whatever sign they are. We live fifty miles apart we work different shifts and I still have 2 teens at home. We use to call each other everyday and he would mostly come to see me on weekends even though he was working.
Girlfriend calls me up to meet up with some other g friends at a small town bar not far from where he lives. I texted him if he would like to join us. The reaction I got was crazy, like I was there to hook up with guy. I was pretty sure after all this time together how much I love him and always believe honesty and respect for each other was on the top of our list.
Sent me some not so nice text messages at first, wouldn't answer my call hardly and if he did it was very cold. He said we need to talk which we all knows what that means it has simply turned my world upside down.
He says he needs some time to himself and things are getting in a rut, I kinda get the same feelings to cause I'm an Aquarius. So when we had the talk, I chose my words carefully and ask him if he was dumping me, he said no he just needed some time. So is he just trying not to hurt me and he is interested in someone else or does he really need to sort out his feelings more? Its been a week and Ive decided not to text him or call him unless he calls me first.
What is he thinking? I met him thru a friend at a club and we was supposed to have a one night stand but it never happened but after he left he texted me saying he liked my personality and he wanted to hang out.
Ever since then me and him have went out on dates and hang out on his days off where I sleep over. Me and him had sex after a week and half of talking but he still pursued me but he has this thing where he'll disappear for a day or two and then I hit him up and he'll say oo I missed u,where u been but mind u I hit him up first for days at a time. Now he was talking about all the stuff he want us to do and everything and I've met his mom already then one night I slept over he asked me where we stand and I said idk I figured u were talking to other girls so I never questioned it and we been talking for like two months he was like I consider u my gf so I said let's make it official then he completely switched up and said na let's wait for the right time I said cool.
This happened two weeks ago, since then he's been putting his phone in front of me, hitting me up all the time saying imiss you, I'm really feeling u what do u think about me so I figured we're making progress. Now for the past few days, he doesn't even hit me up at all and last night I saw he was texting some girl for the first time in a while because he kept sneaking his phone to the side and I asked what do u think about this between me and u and he basically danced around the question saying u mean the song between me and u, I like it, and I was like answer the question but he never answered so I said I got my answer and he was like whatever.
But my question is what should I do at this point? Should I leave him alone and let the other girl have him or keep doing what I'm doing now? He supposed to come to my bday celebration next week but I always have to call and remind him that we're meeting up and it gets to be like he doesn't care at all. What should I do at this point? Leo girl by: Anonymous I have known and been fairly good friends with this aqua boy since the age of 17, so 5 years and in this past year we had sort of re-connected on the friendship front.
Whenever we are at the same venue or place we always come together and have really good chats. He's told his close friend thats he's been wanting to "be" with me sexually for ages.
Now im a commitment phobe so him saying that does not offend me. He had asked my to hang out a few times but it doesnt end up happening, only when we accidently at the same place. I dont know what's going on. Im scared to try with this guy because he's so complicated. Scorpio girl and Leo girl by: f Scorpio Tell him the truth.
Say that his behaviour is making you question whether you want to even be with him anymore. Say what you used to like about him you thought he was cool, sexy and kind. In fact being a little gentle and feminine but strict might work with him.
Don't mention the birthday, just say stop treating me like this. If he does love you, he'll come back for you on your birthday- probably a bit drunk too. X Leo Hi there, I'm afraid he doesn't trust you so he is making excuses to be a bit if a shit in return.
Very hard to make an Aquarius man trust you- try making a big change and telling him so, if you want a relationship that a bit more serious and committed try Aqu men are secretly quite traditional. Also, don't badger him or cut him off cold, be honest and caring but careful about yourself. Don't sleep with him.
At last he is back with me!!!! I have had six traumatic months after my aqua man started seeing someone else after 10 years together. I have been very strategic in my plan to get him back. I have not been confrontational, not asked any details about this other woman. I have just shown him interest, love and affection all the things he felt were missing.
I knew this was my only chance and that I had to give him a reason to want to be with me. It seems to have worked!!! Last week he said out of the blue "Just so you know she is gone" I had guessed this as he has been around constantly for the last few weeks. I didn;t ask any details but he was itching to tell me.
So here is a list of the things he did not like about her - this may help others. She was rude to strangers 2. She tried to make him eat food he doesnt like! She was needy and resentful of his time spent with friends. She shouted at him in front of other people. She tried to play mind games and make him jealous- by this point he said he hoped she did have another man to take away his problem.
When he ended it she harrassed him - ringing and texting him. I am eternally grateful to her for behaving this way. We are now after over 10 years together the happiest we have ever been.
If things stay like this those six months of agony were well worth it. Very happy for you by: f Hi Aries lady, I am very happy for you! I told him before I left to hit me later but he never did so I told him. So I responded to him and he never responded back, I don't know what to think now.
What should I do now? I haven't heard from him all day and I'm scared he may stray away, I just want him to be invested as much as I am. What to do? Libra girl by: f Hi Libra girl, Did you read me comment about the type of woman a Aqu guy wants?
It's easy to an Aqu to be sexual but to be with someone, to love them, that's hard. You are making yourself too available and clingy. Dot ou think he doesn't know why you are hanging around? He isn't stupid. Aqu man wants a naturally pretty girl who is smart, not a wall flower, not clingy but not a bitch. It will drive him nuts, a girl who is fit and caring and not clingy?! He will love it. If he asks act a bit coy and embarrasses, shrug it off like its just something everyone is or should be doing.
Libras need to be in relationships I find, and even though they are Air signs they are also represented by Venus so they deal with love a lot better than Aqu, so go slow.
Good luck! Aqua help! I've known my Aqua for about 5 years in total We never discussed 'us' we just went with the flow of things. The first 6 months were magical; he'd pick me up and take me home, we would chill watching films and he'd be really affectionate. He'd hold my hand when we would go out.
One day we sat watching a film and he held my face in his hands and just stared at me. Another time he asked if I wanted something to drink, I shook my head no and he got up, turned around and kissed me before going to get one. He told me that out of all his female friends I was the only one who understood and got him, I had a heart of gold and I'm a 'rare find'.
He came on quite strong in the beginning and I was scared. He was honest at the beginning and told me he was seeing someone else but I had just got out of a long-term relationship and didn't want anything serious at first so was happy with the arrangement until he started blurring the lines.
They are friendly, interesting and kind. He is a visionary with tons of fantastic ideas and perceptions that will turn your thinking around.
By stimulating his mind, you will capture his attention long enough to want to get to know you further. Another common trait of Aquarius men is their intense interest in anything that is new, or high-tech. Technological gadgets fascinate them, so if you can talk about these, the Aquarius man you have your eyes on will perk up. As long as there is room for learning something new or seeing a new angle, your Aquarian date will be pleased. You can go to a lecture or talk that will leave you with plenty to discuss afterwards, a museum with a new exhibit, or perhaps dinner at a restaurant that has exotic cuisine.
When you are exposing your Aquarius partner to an experience he can learn from, you are going a long way to making a lasting impression. In fact, Aquarius men try to avoid emotions as much as possible. No matter what you are talking about, make sure that you are courteous and polite, as anything that veers off of this path will be a turn off to him.
Show that you enjoy thinking about the bigger picture and making the world a better place. When dating an Aquarius, you can expect to feel enlightened and know that you are seeing someone special. His vision of the world will elevate your thoughts and you are likely to be enchanted with the way he thinks. You will have to exercise some restraint however, if you are the passionate type. It will be beneficial to keep your emotions at bay when in a relationship with an Aquarian man.